Merry Christmas!!! - or not

[skullflame]

Im sure that anyone reading this would like to think that this is a happy post, that this is about my plans for christmas or somthing trival like that. the truth is, im only writing this to vent. as im writing this im blasting the loadest hate music to dround out the screams in my head. i just found out that my dad is addicted to cokain and weed. also my parents are now getting a divorce. the house i grew up in is up for sail b/c my dad cant work while hes in rehab. also my girlfriend is now in a mental hospital b/c she cut her wrists b/c she thinks that she might be pregnat.



Edit:Thinking about this also makes me think of how low my life has become if my first reaction to the worst day of my life is to come and tell ppl i dont even know on a forum.

[XzL.Smart]

thats horrible!!! i feal so sorry for you

[kyle]

wow that sucks. thats a lot a stuff. Hopefully your dad and Girlfriend recover quickly. the divorce thing thats almost too common(don't turn evil like one of my friends that had this happen to him). I really don't think divorces should be granted to everyone. I feel bad for you.

[skullflame]

does it make me a bad person if, the whole time this is happening all i can think about is getting high?

[Lucifer]

does it make me a bad person if, the whole time this is happening all i can think about is getting high?

Just means you can't hold drug use against your father.

[Luke-Jr]

Maybe she shouldn't have tried to get pregnant.

[Tank Program]

Just edited the title of the topic as it's a little harsh... That aside I agree with kyle, "wow, that sucks." Not that I'm full of worldy advice or anything, but I'd avoid getting bogged down in thinking about how bad this is and how you wish it could be otherwise. You've got to keep moving forwards or all you'll do is keep thinking about this and every other thing that's "gone wrong" in your life. And that just doesn't cut it. Or something...

[Sabarai]

Damn dude.. That sucks! I hope both your father and your girlfriend recover fast. Divorces are indeed very common (over here they are at least), but it still sucks if your parents split up..

Try hanging out with friends a lot instead of getting high or drunk or anything, I suppose that would be better. But what do I know? I wouldn't even know how to react to that stuff man...

Good luck with it!

[Swampy]

everyone has their own issues to deal with - but sorry for your luck.





Plus - if you aren't ready to be a parent, wrap it - ok?

[Sabarai]

Plus - if you aren't ready to be a parent, wrap it - ok?

And if there's a mistake anyway there's abortion if you're not ready to be a parent, right?

[[Xpert]DarkStar]

And if there's a mistake anyway there's abortion if you're not ready to be a parent, right?

abortion also has a lot of side effects and it takes ages to recover from these
@ topic: i agree with kyle and tank. just don't start drinking or taking drugs... won't make things better.
it sounds hard at first, but time _will_ make things better. let's hope they both will be back to normal life soon.

[skullflame]

shes against abortion

[Lucifer]

So, abortion is bad, but killing yourself while pregnant is fine? I love double standards.

(avoiding the whole "attempted suicide using methods that have built-in failure" discussion)

[Luke-Jr]

And if there's a mistake anyway there's abortion if you're not ready to be a parent, right?

Right... people who think that belong in a mental hospital or on death row (obviously sparing the child if possible).

[DrJoeTr0n]

Hooboy... I like where this thead is going.

Let the good times roll!