tmi and a stupid comparisonLucifer wrote:Sure, and when my ex-wife CHOSE not to fight back while the guy raped her and gave her chlamydia, it was fine, it was a choice, and it was hers to make.
i know a guy who chooses to remain in the closet because he's also asexual or something so his need isn't that big and he tolerates being with a woman, he's choosing the straight lifestyle because it's easier, it's a choice, he isn't being forced into it, there's no gun against his head no matter how miserable he might be
i don't know why that's making you so angry, some people might be so depressed and ashamed that they stay in the closet but they can still choose to come out and face the adversity but they don't
it's a choice
i've said choice far too much in this topic i'm gonna stop now :- )))
hence why i said having the option isn't a choice (okay last time i said that word)When did you choose to live a heterosexual lifestyle? Oh, right, you didn't *have* to make a choice.